Do the people in your life spark joy?

Do the people in your life spark joy?

The phrase “you can’t pick your family” has always made me chuckle, mainly because as an adult, I have always chosen how I spend my time and with whom – family members included. As I’ve gotten older, my tolerance for toxic behaviour has...
Separation, one year on…

Separation, one year on…

Exactly 365 days ago, my husband, our nearly two-year-old toddler and I handed over the keys to the place we had called home to go our separate ways. It had been a long time coming – our marriage had actually ended a few months earlier following a decade...
Dear husband, I Want Love Not Sex

Dear husband, I Want Love Not Sex

I Want Love Not Sex. The last time you fucked me was shit. You didn’t even care because you came. My body had changed. I’d had your children you see. Everything has moved, my wants and needs have shifted. We so rarely get to ‘do it’ that I...
Infidelity – What are you doin’ my love?

Infidelity – What are you doin’ my love?

Infidelity – *Nothing else ever seems to hurt like the smile on your face, when it’s only in my memory it don’t hit me quite the same. Maybe it’s a cause for concern, but I’m not at ease keeping my head to the curb… What are you...